Even though her life looked glamorous
from the outside, inside she was a physical and emotional mess.
She was a scared and lonely girl with an eating
disorder.
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There is enormous
pressure in our society to look a certain way - to be thin and beautiful. The
majority of women and girls are dissatisfied with their bodies. Many no longer
enjoy food because society and the media makes them feel guilty for eating and
they take extreme measures in an attempt to change their bodies. Eating disorders
seem to have become a woman's way of escaping the daily pressures of life.
The media unquestionably promotes dieting and
size discrimination but it is a lot more complex than blaming
the media.
The media shows images of models with 'perfect'
bodies and women are constantly being told that they must
have a slim and trim figure.
Women are becoming more and more unhappy and
dissatisfied with their body weight and shape.
In order for them to achieve the impossible
goal to look like the thin models and actresses in the media,
they put their health in serious danger.
The media provokes profound dissatisfaction
in the female population but does not necessarily cause eating
disorders.
The media is not wholly responsible for eating
disorders but does play a major part and definitely encourages
eating disorders.
We have to keep
in mind that eating disorders are not simply about food and weight but are an
attempt to use food and weight to deal with emotional problems.
In the celebrity world
there seems to be an unwritten rule about the female body: If you want to be successful,
you have to be skinny - and the more skinnier you become, the more famous you
will get.
In the last decades, we have seen many female
actresses go from healthy curvy figures to skinny bony bodies.
"How
can women be as thin as we are? We have personal trainers to work us out. We have
specially prepared meals." — Sarah Michelle Gellar
"I've
been told that if I lose weight I'd have more work, but I refuse to submit myself
to Hollywood standards. To the rest of the world I am slim and I like the way
I am." — Liv Tyler
"A lot of these girls who spend so much time
trying to be skinny - it's boring and they don't make people
feel good about themselves... I refuse to become part of this
perfect-body syndrome. I like my body."
— Salma Hayek
"Be yourself, and that will make you
more beautiful than anything." — Jamie-Lynn Sigler
"People at the record label were telling
me that I needed to lose weight. The song [In This Skin]
is saying that I am worthy to feel beautiful in my skin. It's
something that every woman experiences in one way or another." — Jessica Simpson
"It's important to teach people not to
feel like they have to fit a certain body image. Overcoming
an eating disorder myself has made me prouder than selling
millions of albums." — Paula Abdul
"For me, it might sound cliche, but beauty
for me really does start on the inside. It's like a state of mind, a state of
love if you will. Then, whatever you can do on the outside is all like a bonus."
— Queen Latifa
"I'm happy with the way I am. I'm not like American
film stars. I'm naturally curvy. This is me, like it or lump
it. People think that if a woman isn't rail-thin, then there
must be something wrong with her - it's such nonsense." ...
"More than ever now, I believe it's so important to look as
real and true to life as possible, because nobody's perfect.
I seem to be on a mission, but I don't want the next generation,
your daughters and mine, growing up thinking that you have
to be thin to look beautiful in certain clothes. It's terrifying
right now. It's out of control. It's beyond out of control." — Kate Winslet
Even though her life looked glamorous from
the outside,
inside she was a physical and emotional mess.
She was a depressed and lonely girl with an eating disorder.
The vomiting and laxative abuse made her very sick.
Overwhelmed by the pressures of the fashion industry,
she used food as a way to deal.
Models in fashion magazines have continued to
get thinner and thinner and the average woman model's weight
is about 15 to 20% lower than what is considered healthy for
her age and height.
Many Models use drastic methods in order to
stay thin and eating disorders are not uncommon. In addition,
for some it is not uncommon to have plastic surgery done.
Rumour has it that some even had removed ribs to make their
waist smaller.
In addition, the pictures of the models that
we see in the magazines are not real - they have been airbrushed
(digitally removing cellulite, wrinkles and spots, evening
out uneven skin tone, making hips smaller and legs longer
- just to mention a few) before going in print. No one, not
even models, looks that good without help! Want proof? Please
go to the following links to see some "Before" and
"After" pictures... powerful Step-by-Step
demonstration of the retouching of a magazine cover.
Beating Laxative Abuse
Czech top model Petra Nemcova was once
so desperate to lose weight, she went on extreme diets and
regularly used laxatives. She admits struggling with her weight
in order to be skinny to be booked for catwalk jobs. "I
went through so many diets in my life. I’ve been very, very
skinny. I’ve been a size zero but I’m naturally more curvy."
She told America's Self magazine, "I began
taking them (laxatives) at the end of 2002." ... "Like
many models, I'd been told I needed to lose 10 pounds, and
even though I was getting a lot of positive feedback about
my appearance, I wanted my stomach to be smaller." ...
"Now I treat my body with the respect it deserves. There's
so much suffering in the world, I don't want to inflict more
on myself for no reason."
Skinny Models are Dying...
Uruguayan supermodel Luisel Ramos died
in 2006 from anorexia-induced heart failure while participating
in a fashion show during Fashion Week in Montevideo, Urugay.
Luisel felt ill after the catwalk, fainted on
her way to the dressing room and died in spite of the medical
attention she received from a mobile hospital unit.
She died at the age of 22.
Luisel's death was one of the main reason why
Spain initiated the ban on super thin models on the runway
in September 2006.
Brazilian model Ana Carolina Reston died
in 2005, at the age of 21 of kidney failure due to anorexia.
Famous
Sufferers - Female Celebrities With Eating Disorders
The following women are very courageous
to talk about their eating disorder and I'd like to thank them for their
honesty, courage and openness.
Singer
Ashlee Simpson (sister of singer and actress Jessica Simpson) has publicly
admitted that she battled with an eating disorder during her pre-teen years. "When
I went to ballet school, I was around a lot of girls with eating disorders, and
I actually had a minor one myself. But then my parents stepped in and made me
eat."
Actress Jessica Alba, has been quoted as saying,
"I got obsessed with it. A lot of girls have eating disorders and I did too. I
got too thin. Now, I am concentrating on being normal."
Actress Christina Ricci (who also admitted
to cutting herself in the past) has commented on her anorexia
by saying, "I had a brief flirtation with anorexia and when
I was recovering from that, I put on a lot of weight, which
was very difficult for me."
Singer Katharine McPhee, American Idol
runner-up, struggled with bulimia while auditioning for American
Idol in 2005. She suffered from an eating disorder for 6 years,
since she was 17 years old. Afer her audition was successful,
Katharine decided to get help. "My bulimia was really
getting out of control." She enrolled at Los Angeles's
Eating Disorder Center of California, where she spent three
months undergoing group and individual therapy six days a
week. "There is a solution for eating disorders. And
not just eating disorders, but addictions. You are able to
over come it and I think that asking for help is the first
step."
Dancer, choreograph and singer Paula Abdul
(American Idol Judge) battled bulimia and decided to
check herself in a clinic, back in 1994. "It is one of the
toughest things to talk about, bar none, and it is one of
the hardest disorders to deal with because it's not black
or white. Eating disorders really have nothing to do with
food, it's about feelings."
Singer Kelly Clarkson suffered from bulimia
when she was younger.
American
Idol judge, Kara Dioguardi, has revealed that she suffered from an eating
disorder when she was younger. "I actually went into a treatment centre for it."
... "It was definitely that excess eating to kind of just stuff all the emotions
down ... I really was a creative kid who didn't know she was creative and didn't
have those outlets because I was always afraid to join the theatre group and not
perform." ... "The moment I started doing music, the moment I did what I loved
to do in my life and committed to it, I don't have those problems anymore ...
I have my outlet." ... "I have that form of expression. I can go to the studio
and talk about my feelings."
Actress Felicity Huffman (Desperate
Housewives) battled both bulimia and anorexia from her teens
into her 20s.
Model Janice Dickinson suffered from bulimia
in the past. Janice wrote a book about her life called
"No Lifeguard : The Accidental Life of the World's
First Supermodel", in which she talks with
brutal honesty about her struggles, addictions, good
and bad times.
'Reba' actress Scarlett Pomers spoke
openly about her battle with anorexia and road to recovery
on the Tyra Banks Show in February 2006. Now, Scarlet is a
spokesperson for The National Eating Disorder Association
(NEDA).
Actress
Jamie-Lynn Sigler (The Sopranos) battled with an eating disorder and spoke
publicly about her eating problem
and
her addiction to exercising. She uses her celebrity to raise awareness about eating
disorders and is now a spokesperson for the National Eating Disorder Association
(NEDA). Jamie wrote a book called " Wise Girl - What I’ve Learned About
Life, Love, and Loss" and openly shares her story about her struggles
with an eating disorder, how her obsession with weight nearly destroyed her career
and the dark side of overnight success. "It is a tough thing to talk about it,
but it is actually therapeutic for me."
Award-winning actress Jane Fonda revealed
several years ago that she had been a secret bulimic
from age 12, and struggled with anorexia and bulimia
for 30 years. Jane became one of the first Hollywood
actresses to break the silence and talk openly about
eating disorders and companied to raise awareness about
anorexia and bulimia. In her autobiography "My
Life So Far", Jane honestly talks about her
30 year battle with eating disorders.
Princess Diana struggled with an eating
disorder and also admitted that she used to self-harm herself.
Singer Melanie Chisholm (Melanie C -
former Sporty Spice from the Spice Girls) publicly admitted
suffering from an eating disorder and depression. Throughout
the time she was in the "Spice Girls", Melanie alternated
between starving herself and excessive exercise.
Singer
Geri Halliwell (former Ginger Spice from the Spice Girls) publicly admitted
suffering from bulimia and binge eating for several years. "I realised I couldn't
control this monster anymore. I needed to find help." Her piece of advice
for those who are struggling - "I can honestly tell you from personal experience,
that worrying about an eating disorder really can get you down. There's nothing
to be
ashamed about. You'll be amazed at the difference it'll
make to your whole life if you tell someone you trust.
There are lots of people who want to help and you really
CAN'T fight this one on your own. It might be a hard
decision to make, to tell people and to seek help but,
trust me it's nowhere as hard as trying to deal with
it on your own." Geri has written a book called "Just
For The Record" in which she talks with brutal
honesty about her life, including battling and overcoming
eating disorders, which she has struggled with since
childhood.
Actress
Sally Field struggled with an eating disorder in the past. Sally began her
three-year battle with anorexia and bulimia at the age of 20. "Everybody
then was Twiggy, except me."
Former 'Ally Mc Beal' actress Courtney Thorne-Smith
battled an eating disorder. Her slide into anorexia led her
to quit the television show 'Ally Mc Beal'.
Former 'Ally McBeal' actress Portia de Rossi
opened up about her experiences with eating disorders.
Top fashion
model and actress Carrie Otis starved herself for about 17 years and nearly
died in her quest for thinness. Today, she is healthy and trying to educate other
women about the deadly dangers of eating disorders. "I had been on this insane
diet for almost 17 years to maintain the weight that was demanded of me when I
was modeling. My diet was really starvation. I am not naturally that thin."
Singer and actress Brandy was secretly
struggling with an eating disorder, ""It was destroying
me, but I looked great and that is what mattered. And it was
crazy". Today she is healthy and most recently gave birth
to a gorgeous baby girl.
Actress
Alexandra Paul (Baywatch) struggled with an eating disorder in the past.
Actress Elisa Donovan (Sabrina - The Teenage
Witch, Clueless) suffered from an eating disorder in
the past. "For me, therapy has been the single
most important part of recovery." "There's
a period of time when you need to acknowledge it. First
to yourself, then to others." Elisa shares her
story in the book Feeding The Fame - Celebrities
Tell Their Real-Life Stories of Eating Disorders and
Recovery.
Canadian singer Alanis Morissette has
admitted that she has struggled with anorexia and bulimia
between the ages of 14 and 18 when she was trying to break
into the music business. She wrote the song "Perfect"
(from Jagged Little Pill album), inspired by her eating disorder
recovery.
Sharon Osbourne has confessed she has
been suffering from bulimia for 30+ years.
Comedian and author Joan Rivers battled bulimia
for years.
Canadian singer Biff Naked suffered from
anorexia in the past.
Actress
Mariel Hemingway (granddaughter of famed novelist Ernest Hemingway) was
born into a troubled family. She was growing up under the shadow of her grandfather's
suicide, and years later also Mariel's middle sister Margaux
committed suicide. Mariel Hemingway had a turbulent
life and also struggled with a severe eating disorders.
In her book "Finding My Balance: a Memoirwith Yoga", Mariel talks about her life,
childhood and family relationships, early success and
fame, personal battles with her own inner demons, and
how yoga and motherhood helped her reconnect with herself
and become centered. Mariel Hemingway now owns a yoga
studio in Idaho and occasionally teaches yoga at her
studio.
Singer
and songwriter Fiona Apple became anorexic after being raped outside of
her mother's home at the age of twelve. She says she was not anorexic out of a
desire to be thin, but as a reaction to being raped. She also admitted to having
self-injurious behaviours in the past.
Actress Audrey Hepburn struggled with
anorexia and depression - which was unknown to the public
during her career. She was known to lose weight under pressure
and to be "strange" about food.
Anna Freud (Sigmund Freud's
daughter), who was also a psychotherapist, documented that she struggled with
anorexia when she was younger.
Crown-Princess Victoria of Sweden admitted
to struggling with anorexia and came to the U.S. for eating
disorder treatment.
Actress
Barbara Niven opened up about her struggle with eating disorders and now
raises awareness and supports others. For more information, visit www.barbaraniven.com.
She also shares her story in the book, Feeding The Fame - Celebrities Tell
Their Real-Life Stories of Eating Disorders and Recovery.
Actress Kate Beckinsale (Underworld,
Pearl Harbor) struggled with an eating disorder during her
teen years, before she decided to start acting.
Model Christine Alt (Carol Alt's sister)
developed an eating disorder under the pressure to slim down
from modeling agencies and clients. "I think that half the
women in this world who are plus-size would not be if they
never went on a diet."
Singer,
songwriter and publisher Cynthia French struggled with eating disorders
in the past and has begun touring the country speaking publicly about her experiences
with eating disorders and how she overcame them. Cynthia wrote a book called "Humanville"
which is spiritually based novel about a young women who tries to become a famous
singer and also struggles with both, bulimia and anorexia.
Actress and voice talent Yeardley Smith
(the voice of Lisa Simpson on "The Simpsons) suffered
from bulimia for years.
Vocalist, pianist and song writer Vanessa
Carlton suffered from depression for many years and also
struggled with an eating disorder. "I became obsessed
with my diet and with working out. I convinced myself I was
just following a regimen, but when l threw up for the first
time, I got scared." Today, Vanessa is healthy and supports
mpower
a web resource for teens struggling with depression that focuses
on how music can help you overcome rough times. "Having
dealt with depression on a personal level, I know how alone
and alienated once can feel. Fortunately, you are not alone.
Life can be better. mpower
can help. What's great about the site is that if you're uncomfortable
telling your parents or friends how you're feeling, you can
still get information online."
After winning her fight with an eating disorder,
Halie Loren released her first solo album, Full
Circle. She struggled with an eating disorder for years,
during which she was also pursuing her music career.
Model
Crystal Renn was discovered at the age of 14 by a model scout and told
to lose weight if she wanted a career in the modeling world. As a result of her
weight loss and the pressure to stay slim, Crystal developed an eating disorder.
She was obsessed about what she ate and overexercised. Today, Crystal is healthy
again and works as a plus-size model and is more successful than ever before.
Crystal also talked on the Trya Banks show, with the topic "The Dark Side
Of Modeling", about her struggles with an eating disorder and the pressure
she felt to stay slim.
Miss America 2008 Kirsten Haglund struggled
with an eating disorder in the past.
Austrian
Empress Elisabeth, better known as 'Sisi' (1837-1898), who was also a poet
and musician, was known for her beauty and was obsessed with her looks. She suffered
from anorexia and overexercised. Over a period of decades she developed strategies
for weight reduction such as fasting rituals, gymnastics, hour-long horse-riding
and forced marching. Numerous documents repeatedly describe her considerable fear
of weight gain and the psychopathological changes specific for anorexia nervosa.
Up to her death, she was stabbed to death with a file in a pointless act at the
age of 60 by a madman in Geneva in Switzerland, she succeeded in restricting to
a minimum not only her body weight but also her social obligations. The documents
on the life of Empress Elisabeth suggest that cultural, historical and psychodynamic
factors play an important role in the genesis of this disorder.
Famous
Sufferers - Male Celebrities with Eating Disorders
There
are many female celebrities who have come out into the open with their eating
disorder struggles, but there are only a few male celebrities coming forward and
going public about their struggles with an eating disorder.
The following men are very courageous
to talk about their eating disorder and I'd like to thank them for their
honesty, courage and openness.
Silverchair lead singer Daniel Johns suffered from
an eating disorder and went public about his struggles with
anorexia. In the song "Ana's Song" (from Neon Ballroom
album), Daniel talks about his experience with an eating disorder.
Actor
Billy Bob Thornton has been open about his weight issues and went public with
his struggles with anorexia, which he developed after losing weight for a role.
Actor Dennis Quaid spoke out about his battle with anorexia in the
mid-1990s which he developed because he had to lose some weight for a role in
a movie. "My arms were so skinny that I couldn't pull myself out of a pool. ...
For many years, I was obsessed about what I was eating, how many calories it had,
and how much exercise I'd have to do."
Actor Matthew Perry (Friends) was battling an eating
disorder in the past.
Musician Richey James struggled
with anorexia.
Former Coronation Street actor Adam Rickitt struggled
with bulimia at the age of 16. "I was frightened and doing my best to keep
it a secret." "I used food to escape depression. After just 5 months, my bulimia
had taken over my life. My weight had plummeted, I looked absolutely awful. I
constantly wore a scarf to try and cover up my gaunt face."
Fitness and
diet guru Richard Simmons suffered from an eating disorder in the past.
Singer and actor Adam Ant (one of the most charismatic
and revolutionary pop stars of the 1980s) struggled with manic
depression, battled anorexia and had suicidal tendencies.
Brazilian model Ana Carolina Reston died on
November 2005, at the age of 21, of kidney failure due
to anorexia. She had been hospitalized since October
25 for kidney malfunction which eventually led to her
death. Ana Carolina modeled for Ford, Elite, and L'Equipe.
Uruguayan supermodel Luisel Ramos died on in
2006, at the age of 22, from anorexia-induced heart
failure while participating in a fashion show during
Fashion Week in Montevideo, Urugay.
Singer Karen Carpenter (great musician of the
70s and 80s) died at the age of 32 on February 4th,
1983, of a cardiac arrest caused by the strain that
the eating disorder had put on her heart. She struggled
with anorexia for many years. Up until that point, eating
disorder were not taken seriously. No one spoke of any
of this and no one was aware of anorexia and it's devastating
consequences.
World class gymnast
Christy Henrich died at the age of just 22 on July 26th, 1994, from the effects
of anorexia. Multiple organ failure was listed as the cause of her death.
Singer and actress Lena Zavaroni died at the
age of 35 on October 1st, 1999, from bronchial pneumonia
due to anorexia, following a 22-year eating disorder
battle.
Gymnast
Helga Brathen died at the age of 29 from effects of anorexia after struggling
with her eating disorder for many years.
On December 18th, 1997, Chris
Farley ("Saturday Night Live") died at the age of 33 from drug and
alcohol abuse as well as compulsive eating.
Boston ballet dancer Heidi
Guenther died at the age of 22 in 1997 as the result of an eating disorder.
After Heidi's tragic death of anorexia, an eating disorder program to fight eating
disorders among dancers was created.
German rower and 1988 Seoul Olympic eight gold medalist
Bahne Rabe died at the age of 37 on August 2nd
2001 as a result of an eating disorder. He had been
suffering from anorexia for several months and starved
himself to death. Bahne was struck down by a lung infection
that his weakened body was unable to fight. Bahne retired
from rowing before the Atlanta Olympics in 1996 when
he saw that he was unlikely to qualify. According to
a German newspaper, after ten years under strict training
regime, with yearly goals to achieve, Rabe found it
hard to manage his everyday life on his own. He had
always been very aware of his body but in the past year
had started to lose weight dramatically and visited
a clinic in March for the first time.
Comedienne
Gilda Radner was one of the original cast members of the comedy show Saturday
Night Live. Gilda was a bit heavy as a child and developed both, anorexia and
bulimia, as a teenager. She struggled with eating disorders for many years. Gilda
was very close to her father, who died when she was only 12 years old. Gilda died
at the age of 43 as a result of ovarian cancer.
Polly Williams,
one of the eating disorder patients profiled in the HBO documentary "Thin,"
died on February 8, 2008, at the age of 33. Sources say that the cause of death
appeared to be suicide. Since leaving the rehabilitation program where she participated
in the documentary, she had been working as a lobbyist for the National Eating
Disorders association and practicing photography, but also continued to struggle
with eating disorders and depression.
The models we see in magazines are not real
- the pictures have been airbrushed (digitally removing cellulite, skin folds,
wrinkles, lines, freckles and blemishes, evening out uneven skin tone, making
hips smaller and legs longer - just to mention a few). No one, not even models,
looks that good without help!
Body features in the media are enhanced
with props, lighting angles, and computer techniques.
Body features from
photos of different people are combined to create the "perfect" image.
Photo
images can be completely computer generated to fit the look of the day.
"Body
doubles" are common in movies when body parts of lead actors don't measure up
to the "perfect" image.
The average woman in the U.S. wears a size 12-14.
Marilyn
Monroe - considered the sex symbol of all times - wore a size 12-14 and was 5
feet and 5 inches tall.
Nowadays, models weigh up to 20% less than what
is considered normal for their height and age.
There are 3 billion women
who don't look like supermodels and only eight who do. (quote from The Body Shop
ad campaign from 1997)
If Barbie were a real woman she wouldn't be able
to walk properly and would have to walk on all fours due to her proportions.
80
to 90% of eating disorders begin with a diet.
90% of individuals diagnosed
with eating disorders are female.
One out of ten patients with eating
disorders are male.
One out of every four college-aged girls struggles
with an eating disorder.
There are five times as many people with bulimia
as with anorexia.
About 50% of people who have been anorexic develop
bulimia or bulimic patterns.
70% of eating disorders last longer than
five years, with almost one quarter lasting more than 15 years. (Canadian Health
Network)
Eating disorders have the highest mortality rate of any mental
illness.
Without treatment, up to 20% of people with serious eating disorders
die. With treatment, that number falls to 2-3%.
The number of people
suffering with an eating disorders has doubled since the 1960s. (Journal of the
American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry)
The resolution of
an eating disorder is not just a matter of willpower. Experienced help is needed
to overcome an eating disorder.
The BIG lesson: Don't compare yourself with what you
see on television or in magazine. Embrace yourself the way
you are!
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